Pawsome Parenting: Embarking on the Journey of Getting a New Pet

Parent hub loves pets!  We would love to provide you with some considerations to help determine when a family is ready to add a pet to their household.   To start, before getting a pet, do thorough research about different pet species, breeds, and their specific needs. Understand their temperament, lifespan, exercise requirements, grooming needs, and any health issues associated with the species. This will help you make an informed decision and choose a pet that aligns with your family’s lifestyle and capabilities.

While every family’s situation is unique, here are some factors to consider:

Time and Commitment:

Pets require time and attention for feeding, grooming, exercise, and training. Consider whether your family members have the time and energy to devote to a pet’s needs. Additionally, different pets have different activity levels and care requirements, so choose a pet that aligns with your family’s lifestyle.

Financial Responsibility:

Pets come with various expenses, including food, veterinary care, grooming, vaccinations, toys, and supplies. Make sure your family can comfortably afford the costs associated with owning a pet without compromising other essential expenses. It’s important to keep up to date with regular veterinary checkups to ensure your pet’s overall health and well-being.  Vaccinations, preventive treatments, and dietary guidelines are essential.

Age of Children:

The age of your children is an important consideration. Young children may not have the ability to handle a pet’s needs or understand how to interact safely. Older children can actively participate in caring for a pet and understand the responsibilities involved. Take into account the age of your children when selecting a pet. Younger children may benefit from pets that are sturdy, have a calm temperament, and are less prone to injury. Older children may be ready for more responsibility and can handle pets with higher maintenance needs.

Allergies and Sensitivities:

Determine if any family members have allergies or sensitivities to pet dander. Some individuals may be allergic to specific types of pets or have asthma triggered by certain animals. It’s important to consider the health and well-being of all family members before bringing a pet into the home.

Lifestyle and Living Arrangements:

Evaluate your family’s lifestyle and living arrangements. Some pets require ample space and access to a yard, while others may be more suitable for smaller living spaces. Consider whether your family’s current living situation is conducive to owning a pet.

Family Dynamics:

Assess the dynamics within your family and ensure that everyone is on board with the decision to bring a pet into the household. Discuss responsibilities, rules, and expectations regarding the pet’s care and establish a consensus.  Involve the Whole Family is vital.  Involve all family members in discussions and decision-making processes. Again, ensure that everyone is on board and willing to contribute to the pet’s care and well-being.

Long-Term Commitment:

Owning a pet is a long-term commitment. Many pets live for several years or even decades. Consider whether your family is ready for long-term responsibility and if you can provide a stable and loving environment for the pet throughout its life.  Also consider if your home is able to accommodate a pet. Before bringing a pet home, ensure that your home is pet-friendly and safe. Remove any hazards or toxic substances that could harm the pet. Set up a designated area with appropriate bedding, toys, food, and water bowls.


By carefully considering these factors and discussing them as a family, you can make an informed decision about when your family is ready to add a pet to your household. Remember, owning a pet can be a wonderful and rewarding experience, but it requires careful consideration and preparation.  Create a routine that includes feeding, exercise, grooming, and playtime for your pet. Assign age-appropriate responsibilities to family members, teaching them about accountability and the importance of consistent care. Bringing a pet into your home is an adjustment for both the pet and your family. Be patient and understanding as everyone adapts to the new dynamics. Allow time for bonding and developing a relationship with your pet. Embrace the joy and unconditional love that a pet brings to your family. Cherish the moments of playfulness, companionship, and the special memories you will create together.

Check out the Handouts page inside the Hub for handouts on: 

  • Different types of pets and benefits to the different types of pets
  • Pet Safety Tips can help parents ensure a safe environment for both their children and their new pet.
  • A printable chart that allows parents to assign and track pet-related tasks among family members. Include daily, weekly, and monthly tasks such as feeding, walking, grooming, and cleaning. This chart can serve as a visual aid to instill a sense of responsibility and accountability in children regarding pet care.